Winning Every Day: The Power of a Positive Attitude

Aaron Bouren
3 min readApr 3, 2023


Today, I want to talk to you about something that I believe is one of the most important aspects of leading a happy and successful life: having a positive attitude. Now, I know that life can be tough sometimes. It throws all sorts of obstacles our way and sometimes, it can seem like we’re never going to get a break. But I’m here to tell you that it doesn’t have to be that way. With the right mindset, we can tackle anything that life throws at us and come out on top. So, let’s get started!

First things first, let’s talk about what it means to have a positive attitude. Simply put, it means focusing on the good things in life, even when things are tough. It’s about finding the silver lining in every situation and refusing to let negative thoughts and emotions drag you down. Now, I know that might sound easier said than done, but trust me, it’s worth the effort. When you have a positive attitude, you’ll find that you’re happier, more resilient, and better equipped to handle whatever life throws your way.

So, how do you cultivate a positive attitude? Well, for starters, you need to accept that “it is what it is”. Life is unpredictable, and we can’t control everything that happens to us. But we can control how we react to those things. When something goes wrong, instead of getting angry or upset, try to take a step back and look at the situation objectively. Ask yourself, “What can I learn from this?” or “How can I use this experience to grow and improve?” By reframing your perspective in this way, you’ll be able to approach challenges with a more positive and proactive mindset.

Of course, it’s not always easy to stay positive, especially when life seems to be throwing one curveball after another. That’s why it’s important to have a few strategies in your back pocket for staying upbeat and motivated, even when things are tough. Here are a few of my favorites:

  1. Practice gratitude: No matter how tough things get, there’s always something to be grateful for. Take a few minutes each day to reflect on the good things in your life, whether it’s your family, your health, your job, or anything else. Focusing on the positive will help you stay motivated and keep things in perspective.
  2. Laugh it off: Sometimes, the best way to deal with stress is to just laugh it off. Watch a funny movie, read a silly book, or spend time with friends who always make you smile. Laughter is a powerful antidote to stress and can help you stay positive even in the toughest of times.
  3. Take care of yourself: It’s hard to stay positive when you’re tired, hungry, or run down. Make sure to take care of your physical and emotional needs by getting enough sleep, eating well, and taking time for self-care activities like exercise or meditation.
  4. Surround yourself with positive people: The people we surround ourselves with have a huge impact on our mood and attitude. Make sure to spend time with friends and family who lift you up and support you, rather than dragging you down.
  5. Set goals and stay motivated: Having something to work towards can be incredibly motivating, even in the face of adversity. Set realistic goals for yourself and work towards them every day, no matter how small the steps may seem.

Remember, at the end of the day, it’s up to us to choose how we approach life. We can either let our circumstances dictate our mood and attitude, or we can choose to stay positive and focused on the good things. So, let’s make a commitment to ourselves today to embrace a positive attitude, no matter what life throws our way.

Originally published at on April 3, 2023.



Aaron Bouren

Aaron Bouren, CEO of Bouren Ventures, is an entrepreneur, public speaker, sales trainer, and marketing expert. Learn more at